Are you eating from the 4 major sex groups?
Here’s some really great advice from iVillage.com:
Sex is like food – we need variety to keep us interested and healthy. Imagine a sex-life pyramid containing four sex groups:
- Intimacy-driven sex
- Sex that engages our senses
- Sex for the sake of feeling good
- Fantasy sex that flexes our mind muscles
It is my philosophy that you should regularly be tapping into each of these groups for a healthy, balanced sex life. This idea will guide our program — each day’s assignment will draw from a different group, with the goal of giving you healthier, hotter and more frequent sex.
Of course, giving your relationship a boost takes time, and it takes two. Tell your partner that you’ve signed up for this Challenge, explain that you might have some new tricks up your sleeve this month, and certainly, ask your honey to sign up too! Also, set aside an hour each day to focus on your assignments.
Worried you can’t make time for sex, like so many other women who answered our survey? Follow these four easy steps:
1. Turn off the TV.
2. Close the computer.
3. Step away from the phone.
4. Turn and face your partner!Ahhh, there you are.
Now close your eyes, take a deep breath, and just do it – have sex, make love, get it on, whatever you do, do it tonight!