50 Things Every Man Should Know About Sex, but Doesn’t

I found this list accidentally a while back on a site called The 2-Hour Sex Prodigy and made some adjustments so as to use it as a tool for conversation. I have absolutely no idea if the 2-Hour Sex Prodigy system works and this is by no means an endorsement, but I’ll give them credit for the list since it’s the right thing to do.

The list gives a pretty concise look at what many of us want our Doms to aspire to. While some may be strong in some of these areas don’t take that as inability. I also don’t recommend running up to your Dom exclaiming, “Look, I have a list of what you’re supposed to be doing. Elle gave it to me.” I may just take your ass over my knee if I hear of that happening. DON’T read this list and judge your Dom because that’s not the purpose. We all have our things to work on and my advice is to work on yourself first and foremost, but I’m not unaware of the fact that we have submissive needs and would like our needs met.

What you can do is start writing down how you feel about many of these categories in a journal that your Dom can read. I started using an app called Chapter – Shared Journal For 2. My Sir can see everything I’ve written from his app and we can privately comment back and forth. It’s better than texting because you can password protect it (so nosey children don’t read your comments) and put everything in categories; you can even include photos.

So here’s the list…enjoy!

1. You should know that the quality of your sex life will affect your relationship and numerous other areas of your life
2. You should know how to love her unconditionally
3. You should know her inner, secret, longings and desires
4. You should know her priorities in life
5. You should know how she evaluates you and your masculinity
6. You should know how to unfold her femininity
7. You should know how she craves to feel owned by you
8. You should know how she craves to serve you
9. You should know how she wants you to challenge her
10. You should know how to read her facial expressions and body language
11. You should know how to relax her
12. You should know how to intensify her submissiveness
13. You should know how to lead her directly and indirectly using your voice
14. You should know how to take over her mind using your voice
15. You should know how to mind fuck her using your voice
16. You should know how to develop your disciplinarian trait
17. You should know how to develop your encourager trait
18. You should know how she wants you to protect her
19. You should know how to develop your self-reliance trait
20. You should know how to develop your resolution trait
21. You should know how to develop your honor trait
22. You should know how to develop your courage and bravery traits
23. You should know how to develop your perseverance trait
24. You should know how to be charismatic and charming
25. You should know how she craves seduction and foreplay
26. You should know how to handle her body and move her where you want her
27. You should know how to talk dirty
28. You should know how to talk enticingly and seductively
29. You should know her secret, sexual confessions
30. You should know how to bring out her wild, animalistic lust
31. You should know how to encourage and reveal her dirty, naughty side
32. You should know how to tease her body and draw out her excitement
33. You should know every erogenous zone on her body and when to trigger it
34. You should know how to use your mouth and tongue to drive her wild with pleasure
35. You should know how to awaken her G-spot out of its sleep
36. You should know how to take full control of her G-spot and make it tremble with pleasure
37. You should know how to awaken and thrill her deep spots
38. You should know how to excite her cervix
39. You should know how to awaken her anal pleasure spot
40. You should know how to make her feel your girth better
41. You should know how to control her orgasmic contractions
42. You should know how to heighten her sensations with small adjustments
43. You should know how to tease her continuously at the brink of orgasm
44. You should know how to stimulate her clitoris and how to draw it out
45. You should know how to raise her post-orgasmic sensations so she orgasms again and again
46. You should know how to heighten her sensations with pressure points
47. You should know how to get an insatiable sex drive
48. You should know how to increase your sexual energy
49. You should know how to control your ejaculations and get stronger erections
50. You should know how to take care of her after you’ve played

Don’t worry, men, her list is coming…