HA!!!!! The answer is a big fat YES! Tell us something we don’t know NY Times!
Here is The New York Times Magazine article and it’s good.
Read The Times article if you or your husband are trying to work through difficult issues in D/s. I think you’ll find some valuable information. It’s very well written. I don’t like some of the conclusions drawn in the end because they aren’t looking at this from the perspective we have in the community, but there is some really good food for thought and can really get you and your spouse talking openly and honestly.
Let me know what you think!