Thank you to the lovely, fiona, at Sir Q and me for nominating me for a Liebster. Go check out her blog. She is fun and sweet! Fiona, I love that Sir Q calls you his mlb (my little bitch). Here are the 11 questions fiona asked:
1. What’s your favorite erotic book?
I don’t know if I have a favorite erotic book. I did enjoy the Sylvia Day series: Bared to You, Reflected in You, and Entwined with You.
2. Does anyone in vanilla life know about your kink?
Yes, I have a friend, D, that knows. She is like an older sister/aunt. She and her husband used to be bedroom D/s until he started having health problems. We do not go into detail about sex and activities, though, which is one of his rules (he’s very private), but she is like a spiritual guide to me and has my back. She’s also a feisty Dominican from the Bronx who will tell me off in a second.
3. What’s your favorite sex toy
My husband’s tongue. Oh, and nipple clamps. We also have a really large dildo that does it for me. The wand…uh, huh, the wand.
4. What’s your favorite color?
I love shades of purples and lavenders the most, but they have to have a smoky quality to them.
5. Do you prefer cold weather or hot weather?
I like hot weather as long as there isn’t stifling humidity. I can’t do the humidity anymore. My favorite weather is early fall…that exact time when the weather is perfect with just a hint of crispness in the air, but everything is still green and lush with the exception of one fiery red leaf in a tree.
6. What piece of furniture in your house do you love the most?
I love our bed. We sprang for a new king mattress and box spring set in November and I just love it. It’s a combination traditional spring mattress, but has a gel memory foam pillow top. We didn’t want to do the full memory foam mattress because they don’t have enough bounce for good, hearty fucking. I don’t mind the subtle squeak of the mattress; I think it’s one of the sexiest sounds.
7. What’s your favorite movie?
I have 3 favorite movies that I can watch over and over. By the by, as I’ve thought about these movies I can see a core theme that you may not notice. The women in these movies willingly submit to their men:
1-Yankee Doodle Dandy starring James Cagney. I know every song and many of the lines. He was one hell of a tap dancer.
2-Last of The Mohicans starring Daniel Day-Lewis. The movie deviates from the book, but Nathaniel (Hawkeye) is so fucking hot and strong and dominate. He just takes his woman!
3-The Nutty Professor (1963) starring Jerry Lewis. This is Coach’s favorite movie as well. Jerry Lewis at his finest and what a comedic genius. Coach quotes lines from this movie all the time or randomly breaks out in Julius’ dance at the senior prom and has me rolling on the floor laughing. Check out the dance scene here for a good laugh.
8. Has anyone other than your significant other ever spanked you?
Nope. Just Coach. However, where I come from, men pinch women’s asses and I’ve had plenty of that in my time. I miss a good random ass pinching and I do fantasize what it would be like to be spanked by someone else.
9. Do you consider yourself handy?
Yes, I do. I grew up in a do-it-yourself family and have some skills. I personally installed our dishwasher and our new kitchen faucet! Not one leak, thank you very much!
10. What would be your family and friends reaction to finding out you’re kinky?
I think some would be upset and some will try and hit me over the head with the bible. At this point in my life I really don’t care. This last year, more than any other, has shown me who is real and fake. Those who truly love me will not judge. I don’t have time for anyone who will.
11. What’s your favorite pair of shoes?
I have a pair of vintage Salvatore Ferragamo sling backs that are a dusty rose suede with brass heels and they are so very classy and make me feel like a socialite when I wear them. I love stilletos and am so happy I can wear them as high as I want because Coach is 6′ (well, he shrunk a little and is officially 5’11.5″ now, but don’t tell anyone).