As a submissive I never refuse any sexual contact. I’m available to my Dom whenever, wherever, and however he chooses. This is the agreement because he is in charge of my body. Granted, when I’m sick or dog-tired he’s a loving and understanding Dom and he takes care of me and makes sure I get my rest. My well being is priority.
All that being said, I still want to be pursued. Just because he can always have me doesn’t mean I don’t want to feel the excitement of the seduction. I love the pursuit. I want to feel wanted and desired. That feeling of the chase is so thrilling. There’s the lead up, the flirting, the subtle, but definitive touches. There’s the look in his eyes and the mischievous smile. Nothing specifically said yet volumes are spoken. It’s teasing at its finest and it makes me feel so sexy and special. It’s the feeling of being desired and singled out. It’s the little things and the big things and everything else in between. It’s the connective heat and the thrill of the unexpected.
Oh, yes, Sir, pursue me.
I completely agree!!
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It’s wonderful, isn’t it?
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Oh yes…
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The flirt, the chase, the pursuit, the catch! yes, please.
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Just a little hard to get can really make the chase and catch so much fun.
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From the book I am reading now…..why run? ….for the pleasure of being pursued. ..
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Reblogged this on Tatiana's Garden and commented:
Beautifully said 💗
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I think the pursuit is SO IMPORTANT in a relationship. Isn’t that often why people stray? They have someone showing interest, giving wanted looks and making you feel chased and desired. I TOTALLY agree with your post. Pursue me Baby, please. 💋
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Relationships can get stale and many times people just give up. Couples that strive to keep their dynamic vital and healthy, even in a D/s dynamic, having lasting partnerings. You have to keep it fresh and fun and sexy.
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Aye, but it can’t be one sided…
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So true! Relationships are work and BOTH have to give it their all.
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I hope you don’t mind Elle, I just had to reblog! 🌼
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Not at all. Thank you so very much. I love your name, by the way. I just took a Princess test that said I was a Fairy Princess. I think I do wish I had a magic wand and could make things all better.
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Thank you Elle! All fairy princesses have a magic wand you just gotta find yours 😉
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I agree with you completely. Especially when they pursue like the Doms they are. Rawr.
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There’s nothing like a Dom in pursuit. They can be quite cunning and clever as they circle their prey. Swoon!
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Wolves…and I love every second of it.
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Yes, this sounds so hot!
To be wanted, looked at, desired, and made to know that you are indeed wanted, looked at and desired…
One day, I’ll have it too 🙂
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You are having some major adventures so I have no doubt you will have it. XO
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True, but having adventures and finding a love that is reciprocated are two different things 🙂
XO
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But you’re out there and that’s how you will meet.
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The question is, will I allow myself to meet new people? Have I already met him? It’s all a bit complicated 🙂
I need to write a post, but after I go out tonight, so maybe tomorrow, if I’m not too tired 🙂
Thanks Elle!
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XO
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A subtle and yet a roar…need you to want me, Sir….
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I did a post about him wanting me to want it. I want him to want it, too. I love the build up because it sets my imagination on fire.
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Oh yes I love being pursued…….. I want it and part of me needs it.
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We all want to feel wanted and never taken for granted and a playful Dom is just heaven.
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The chase is fabulous! But, I just had a conversation with M. about “the tease”….
Diversity, dievca, Diversity!
XO
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I’m going to have this conversation with my husband.. I love having sex anytime he wants, but I like the chase just as much.
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I like being wooed and courted. It’s good to feel that tension and have some of the romance, too.
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🙂 Variety is the spice of life.
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I just love your posts! Everything the others and you have said is a definite yes! Totally get this! Thanks Elle! Awesome!
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Thank you. It seems many of us get it. As available as we are, it’s nice when there is that small element of uncertainty and the unknown.
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Reblogged this on With Tender Affection and commented:
Awesome post from a beautiful submissive…words that some of us may choose to live by…
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I so appreciate the reblog. Thank you so much for sharing.
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Yes, THIS! There is a strange disconnect for us subs–I’m glad you verbalized it. The chase, the pursuit is so sexy. Sometimes that’s hard when we say we’re always available. I too have wanted to “resist,” a bit to be “taken down…” not sure how to do this sometimes.
Don’t know where SK got his little acronym– but he has told me he knows I want to be Pursued, Led, Understood and Gifted –“PLUG” “Gifted” always confused me a little… He couldn’t really explain it either… and while I’m not one to expect gifts, they are nice. I hope you didn’t laugh to hard at the acronym, as anything anal is a hard limit for him; I’m all for changing it to PLUS (since I need the spanks). We need to come up with some “acceptable” naughty resist techniques!
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Reblogged this on loneyheart and commented:
I needed to read this today. In part because i feel this way. and in part because i forget that he needs to feel this as well. We must remember to give in the same way that we wish to receive. We all want to fell desired.
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Indeed there is beauty hidden in the thrill of the chase… Thank you for sharing
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Exactly! Thank you so much for commenting and following.
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It is my pleasure… 🙂
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