So Good. So Rare.

“I’m coming home at noon. I have a big break during the day and I don’t have to be back at work until five.”

“Really? What are we going to do with all that time?”

Long pause

“Just be ready.”

“Hey, kids, Daddy has a big break this afternoon and he and I have some work to do. He’s going to eat lunch as soon as he gets in the door and then he and I are going to go up into our room and work. We do not want to be disturbed. You guys can watch any movie you want.”

An hour later

“How’s my girl?”

Long, deep, passionate kiss

“I’m good, Sir. I’m so excited you’re here right now.”

“Let’s see how excited you are. Take your clothes off and kneel on the bed.”

“Good girl. Now get on all fours. I want to inspect you.”

Pinch. Smack, smack, smack, smack. Pinch, pinch, pinch, smack, smack, smack, smack, smack, bite, bite, bite, smack, smack, really hard bite.

“Scoot back to the edge, ass in the air, and rest your face on the bed. You’re not allowed to move.”


“That’s a beautiful site and it’s all mine.”

Yes, all yours, always


Our New Puppy





This is a photo of Emi with her sister. If we could have adopted her we would have.

Meet our new puppy, Emi. Emi is Japanese for beautiful blessing. She is a German Shepherd/Australian Shepherd mix and just turned eight weeks. She is a sweetheart and is so smart. Her combination makes her loyal, brave, protective, smart and super sweet. We are so in Iove with her.

It’s been five years since we had a dog and we’ve missed having one.

House Rules

Do you have rules in your house? We have always had rules and really do try and follow them. There have been times that we’ve lost our way and practically threw all of them out, but we were always able to come back to them because we wrote them with each other’s best interest at heart. I really believe this is why we have been together so long. No matter what our trials have been, we truly have a strong desire to be married to each other and provide for and nurture our children to the absolute best of our abilities.

Today I’ll give you the rules we have for our entire family because it’s a really good beginning for our D/s marriage and has laid the foundation. It’s something we can fall back on when life gets out of control. We instituted these specific rules seven years ago, right after our son was born and our children are very good at letting us know when we break our own rules. Funny how they don’t see the humor when they break them.


We put God first by worshiping Him, seeking Him, praying to Him, surrendering to Him, and by studying to show ourselves approved. 

We speak the truth in love and always consult and inform each other about what is going on in our lives.

We use kind and respectful words about ourselves, to one another,and give a good report to anyone who asks.

We display gentle and kind actions toward ourselves and toward one another. 

We pray for, help, support, encourage, uplift, respect, trust, and care for one another.

We replace all negative words and thoughts with words and thoughts of joy and find the humor and laughter in everything.

We listen intently, give generously, and share completely.

We do as we’re told quickly and efficiently.

We spend our time and finances wisely so that we can have more time and finances.

We participate in one activity at a time, finish what we start,  and pick up after ourselves when we’re done.

We always use good manners and proper etiquette.

We keep our home orderly, neat, and clean and take good care of our home and belongings.

We eat well, sleep well, stay physically active, and treat our bodies with respect and dignity.

We always seek to learn new things, acquire new skills, and improve our minds.

We’ll always trust and love each other forever.